Welcome to the 2013 Valentine’s Day Blog Tour hosted by the LovEly ParaGoddess JoLynne Valerie! You will be tantalized and bewitched by her, and guest bloggers Jennifer Leigh Scott - Me!, Candi Fox, and Monica Schroeder.
For this Valentine’s Day post, I will be serving up some dishes of LovE advice for all the beautiful single peeps as well as for all of those already coupled up.
Feel like you’re looking for LovE in all the wrong places? Or perhaps you have given up finding anyone at all as you never seem to meet any prospects? Read on for the Magickal remedies to help with this.
First things first. It is time to clean up stagnant places and let light and air in. This is not only your physical space, but your inner personal space as well. How can you make room for bigger and better things if your home, work, and inner sanctums are filled with old, immovable stuff? Feng Shui works! This is the perfect time to do some Spring cleaning. You will feel better and breathe easier, as well as open up your spaces to attract more - this not only means LovE, but Prosperity and Abundance as well!
Get moving physically - try Yoga, Pilates, Ballet, or just start stretching. Every little step you take moves you towards your bigger goals. Begin a practice of Meditation or step it up if you have been slacking lately. It is crucial to clear out the cobwebby recesses of our minds and hearts, especially in this noisy world we live in. If you have some residual stuff from previous relationships, begin to sift through, feel and process it, and then release it. This can be done more effectively and gently with Meditation. If you feel the need to cry, then by all means cry. Then open up that space to let the Light in.
As you clean and clear your inner and outer spaces, not only will you feel as if burdens have lifted, you will also begin to feel more creative. Begin or continue something that you have put off; this can be any hobby, or something that you have always wanted to try. Paint, dance, sing, draw, write, cook, have lavish dinner parties. When you have the Aha! moment to create, get to it! Another thing I like to advise Clients and Friends of is: wear that special outfit, try the new haircolor, wear pretty lip gloss that makes you happy, break out the pretty lingerie; guys wear your nice cologne and get a great haircut. These things boost our Spirits and make us feel better. Drink more water and eat better as well. “Live as If” is one of my favorite quotes; use and do the things that make you happy now. Live Life to the fullest LovErs, and most of all, Fall in LovE with Yourself!
What does all of this have to do with finding my True LovE Guidance Goddess? you ask. Well, my dear, if you continue doing the same old stuff, and letting the same old stuff pile up, how in the world do you ever expect anything to change? If you keep the same old things and thoughts, then how in the world are you going to attract anything but the same old kinds of relationships? Another piece of advice (and this is from experience as well) - keep in mind that The One for You is often not who you expect, and they are not often found in the places you expect. By doing the things mentioned above, you will be opening yourself to new experiences and the chances to meet new people. Get busy Baby! I am rooting for you, and I cannot wait to hear your True LovE story and how it manifests!
If you are already coupled up, and you want to rekindle the Flames of LovE and Passion, then this part is for you. We all need to step things up and refill our cups occasionally.
Begin with the advice given above for clearing spaces. My Twin Flame and I did this about a month ago - we cleaned out the kids’ rooms and reorganized, and we rearranged our whole bedroom together! Let me just say, Vavava Voom! Then toss in a little Spirituality. Light white, pink, and red candles. Draw on your Intuition for what your LovEr yearns for: if he/she has been working really hard, offer a massage. Do this without any expectations, and you may be handsomely rewarded. We bought some little books from a bookstore a while back (novelty and adult shops will have them as well) with tear off notes to leave for your LovEr to discover in their lunch, on their pillow, in the car, etc. These notes are sexy innuendos and promises of things to come!
Talk! Even if your Other Half seems unwilling or closed off, it really is vital. You must communicate, and you must work out your problems in order to achieve balance. The strongest, happiest couples are those that figure out the Yin/Yang of LovE. And yes, it is possible. It happens in my house every day. Even if we argue and need time to cool off, we then come together later to discuss. We compromise; we admit when one of us is wrong. Then we hug, kiss, and well, make up! Also, give each other space daily to do your own things. This is a sign and key element of healthy individuals that make up a cohesive unit.
Music is a good LovE Potion ingredient. Make multiple sexy and romantic playlists that you can play for just the right moments. Break out the sexy clothes and heels (or whatever is your hot thang style) and do a little dance. If you cannot eat out often, cook up spicy and different dishes and desserts to share together. Explore the world together - schedule that romantic getaway, camp out in your living room, roleplay. We send texts to each other sometimes like we have never met: “Hey. I got your number from..... What are you doing? Do you want me to pick you up later? We can go to my place.” Yes, we actually do this, and you know what - it works! Let me know how Hot your relationship begins to heat up when you work your Magick!
This just in: For those of you who are in a relationship and are having trouble or have questions, please dabble a bit in both of the sections above. Take what works for you. This is foremost, however: LovE you! You must take time to LovE and treat yourself right for LovE to Manifest at any time. Listen to your Intuition - it will tell you everything you need to know. Take care of YOU first, while keeping an open and giving Heart, and the rest will follow. <3
All four of us Ladies will be featuring giveaways as part of the Blog Hop. I will be giving away an Oracle or Tarot card Reading, and Candi Fox will be offering a LovE/Romance Manifestation Session of up to four hours over a week's time. Monica Schroeder will be giving away a query critique for new writers. And JoLynne will be giving away a signed copy of her Paranormal novel Strange Love along with signed book plates and an Author card. Here are the links and schedule for the rest of the #ValentinesDay #BlogHop hosted by #ParaGoddess:
February 12: http://www.badabingnow.com
February 13: http://www.monicacorwin.com
February 14: http://www.JoLynneValerie.blogspot.com
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